Mapping Our Place

 

This is one of two maps I was commissioned to make by Closing Loops of areas in Lancaster.  There was a lot of walking around the area, working out what to include, talking to people as to what was important to them, and getting a feel of the place myself. I knew both sites reasonably well, but definitely was an outsider – a perfect place to begin.

Over April 2025, I invited people who lived, worked and played in the area to contribute drawings, collages and / or stories of the area. The drawings and scribbles were originally added onto four A1 sheets that only had the roads marked on them, while people talked freely about what events the drawings were inspired by. These encounters happened in schools, groups that met in the community centre and on a field one weekend, where I met the biggest range of people (and as usual was far too engaged in talking with them to take photos, so this is a recreation of what went on).

I then transcribed their stories, and along with their accompanying drawing, added these to the back of the map

The four giant maps were then scaled down to a manageable A3 size and sent to the incredible Morecambe Riso Press to be printed. 

These were then given to those who contributed and people who came to events at the Wild Roots Festival in June. 

It was a project to reveal the multi-layered nature of each place as well as the opportunity to dream its future. Over all these conversations what I loved the most was encouraging people to share their stories of a place. You might see in the map under its title two stick creatures. These were my benchmark drawings. They are of two deer spotted in the woods. So whenever anyone told me they couldn’t draw, I pointed to the deer. It was not a project about art, but the artistry of storytelling, place and how we might tell our stories of the place, using words, pictures, collage, or any other format possible. 

I’ve written about the joy I had in finding a place for my very limited drawing skills over on substack. What I didn’t mention was that I had been wanting to make a community map since devising a mapping walkshop with Maya Chowdhry when we worked on Walk With Us, in 2020-2022. We applied to various residencies with the idea, that was as much digital (and audio) as zine-y because of Maya’s interests, and never got a bite. So while this was a far smaller scale version of our vision, it did bloom, two years later, which in the scheme of sowing seeds isn’t too long to wait for germination.

This Mapping Our Place project didn’t manage to fulfil all its ambitions – of using the maps to instigate walking tours in the areas, but that can come next time. I also made a make your own map zine  which you can download and try if you’d like to have a go in your neighbour. Alternately you could ask me 🙂 

Zen Crones

Some years ago a friend asked if I’d like her oracle cards of Zen Crones.
Oooh, I thought, they sound just the ticket, and said, Yes please thank you very much. Turned out, they were Zen Koans.
And rather wonderful.
However the mishearing stuck, and some time later, believing as strongly as ever that the world needs to hear from Zen Crones, I had the idea to make some to fit the original perhaps not so mistaken brief.

A Zen Crone, I suggested to those I emailed with the idea, is a piece of wisdom or thought or saying that encourages understanding, shares learnt experience and has that edge we know Crones have. (Zen, in this case, is a state of calm attentiveness. A koan is an often paradoxical statement that invites contemplation for possible insight.)

These Crones have come from that band of elder friends who replied to my request for contributions.

And are: Jill Anderson Lora Aziz Deb Barnard Sita Brand Rebecca Bilkau Maya Chowdhry Penny Collinson Collette Corcoran Mandy Dike Charlotte Done Jane Eagland Siri Ellis Naomi Foyle Susan Gibbs Chris Hardy Flo Headlam Pippa Hennessy Jude Ho Anne Holloway Endar Kaur Dorothy Lander Jo Lawrance Eleanor Levin Ally MacKenzie Di Mitchell Sally Slade Payne Caroline Pick Billie Riley Diane Sammons Stephanie Sandham Seni Seneviratne Sue Sherman Florisini Tomas Helen Tookey Catherine Williams and Katherine Zeserson

They’ve bent sayings to rejuvenate them, offered ones well-used by their families, others they’ve repeated over and over, conjured special phrases for us today or suggested ones they heard said in passing.

Reclaiming homespun wisdom, all of them serve to remind ourselves of our potential at times of need. They might be wise counsel, signposts to elsewhere, words of wisdom, a familiar proverb, an aphorism. Crone sense, rather than common sense. They might be funny, obvious, queer, serious, anything that a crone might have to share with another person.

I hope you enjoy them, ground yourself with them and be as free with them as those who gave them in the first place. They’ve been made with love, for love.

100 matchbox editions. ÂŁ10 each, plus p&p
Each contains a unique mix of 18 Zen Crones, plus a blank card to add your own wisdom to the collective, an explanatory insert sheet and linen thread lever.




If you want these sent overseas, please email me directly on sehymas [at] gmail.com so I can double check postage costs. Thank you 🙂

 

Details
The cards have been made with Paperback recycled Context White 225gsm card, the wrapper is 110gsm Context White paper and the info slip is Context Yellow.
I used the Morecambe Riso Press to print their glorious colours, with the generous guidance of Charlotte, to whom I’m indebited
While cutting boxing wrapping and faddling the 100 editions, I listened to multiple episodes of For the Wild podcast 

Zen teacher Susan Murphy Roshi says a koan has the power to unfold us in much the same way crisis unfolds us; to bring us into greater intimacy with a reality in which we are seamless with all of creation.

Funerals and End of Life Celebrations

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Any ceremony that accompanies a funeral or burial is as flexible as your imagination.

I’ve been honoured to work both with people on planning their own funerals and with the recently bereaved looking to celebrate the life of a beloved. In either case I offer the space for people to explore what living and dying means in a spiritually fulfilling way, and how they would like to celebrate their end of life, or the life of their loved one.

To discuss that rite of passage, in advance, offers a chance to step consciously towards death, prepare how you want your life to be celebrated, how to mark your departure for those left behind. It can be a point of coming to terms with the end of an illness or old-age.

It can also alleviate the stress for others who have to plan and prepare at the disorientating time of grief.

I can write anything for the ceremony, help you to write something, read it or merely orchestrate the ceremony while others read and speak.

My years of coaching give me the skills and depth of experience to ensure we will plan the ceremony you want. My interest lies in you expressing your life and anticipation of death. How you want to do this and who you want involved is the focus of our meetings. I would hope to meet any family or friends you would want to participate to ensure the smoothest experience for us all.

I have offiated at natural burials and cremations.

In 2025 I completed the foundation course towards becoming an End of Life Doula, with Living Well, Dyding Well.  This means I am supported as an End of Life Doula in Training, offering support, guidance, advocacy and / or companionship, in your preparation for your end of life.

The Dalton Woodlands Burial Ground, near Burton-in-Kendal Cumbria UK, is a 30 acre mature woodland, a quiet and restful place to be buried. Francis Mason-Hornby, the registrar there, is a straight talking, compassionate man, open-minded and accommodating to what people want.

Natural burials are a growing alternative to cremations in offering a non religious burials. If you love the idea of returning smoothly to the world that made you, a woodland burial is the chance to take a quiet embrace at the end of your life.

Cost

My basic fee for planning and delivering an event is ÂŁ200.
This includes ther writing of a short script or eulogy.
More requirements, then the cost rises accordingly.
I am also happy to work with tighter budgets.
Let’s have a chat and see what you want and what I can offer

Celebrant

civil celebrant north west englandI am an independent celebrant, based in north west England. I work with people to create authentic ceremonies to celebrate and mark their rites of passage in life.

I devise and deliver Commitment Ceremonies, Funerals and Memorials, Namings, Vow Renewals, Birthdays and Launches. More details on my ceremony making are here.

I travel to Cumbria, Lancashire and  Yorkshire. I’m also able to travel farther, depending on the occasion. Get in touch and ask.

My work as a creative practitioner and coach underpins my approach to being a celebrant. I am an active listener and aim to clarify exactly what you want for the ceremony. The dynamic between me and you lays the foundation for making your ceremony. The process will be creative, engaging and energising, as enriching as the event itself.

I was trained in 2013 by Sue Gill and Gilly Adams, of the Dead Good Guides. They are both well-respected secular celebrants who promote the artistry and creative element of ceremony.

In 2025 I undertook the foundation course to begin the process of becoming an End of Life Doula , with Living Well Dying Well. This means I am currently a registered End of Life Companion.

I have devised and delivered events and ceremonies for over twenty years, for festivals and community events. Becoming a celebrant fuses my love for words, occasion and collaboration.

“Each something is a celebration of the nothing that supports it.”
John Cage

 

               

I specialise in curiosity and creative experimentation.

My materials are words, folded paper, speech and our ecological experiences. I write, stitch, perform and collaborate around our ecologies, through poems, stories, artistbooks and immersive walks. 

I run workshops to deepen my practice and share with others the value and intrinsic role of creativity in our lives. This desire also drives my practice as a mentor and coach.

I’m a builder of communities, within the worlds I create, between story and reader, and within the groups I facilitate.  In all areas of my practice, I celebrate the quiet intricacies that are interwoven within being and thinking, word and action, living and learning. I believe in the value of collective wisdom and celebrate how we can nourish and inform each other in any communities I’m part of.

I aim to capture the fragility of the world we inhabit, and seek to share my sense of wonder and vulnerability, to create safe spaces for inclusive thinking. My invitation is for people to resee the worlds they’ve become familiar with, and build resilience in their creative and spiritual lives.

My work as a poet and facilitator begins where I am based on Morecambe Bay, between Lancaster and Kendal, in the UK, and spreads regionally, nationally and internationally.

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Vow Renewals

strawberriesA wedding anniversary is an opportunity to renew vows made – five or fifty – years previously.  A ceremony acknowledges the time you’ve shared and your commitment to a joint future.

If you married abroad, a Vow Renewal Ceremony can provide a
opportunity for you to celebrate with your family and friends.
Email: sehymas at a gmail dot com

Birthdays

birthdaysBirthdays, especially the big 0s, are worth marking. Either for a handful or hundreds of loved ones, I will devise, with you, a unique ceremony that will celebrate you and embrace your past and future.

Once devised I can hold the space, run proceedings and keep an eye on timings so you fully enjoy your party.

Or I can help you devise your own personalised ceremony and once  it’s decided upon, provide you with a script and other prompts for a friend or family member to run.

Example A 50th
Outset
The Birthday Girl had booked the venue and was now wondering if she actually did want a party. It all seemed rather daunting. Although she knew she wanted to mark her birthday somehow. We talked about what was important to her: her friends, celebrating the spiritual and creative elements in her life, her connection with the environment and her philosophy of recycling. We also established she wanted a small ritual that had a discreet place to the evening, that, on further investigation, would involve everyone and focus on her.  And a poem to convey growth. By the end of our conversation she announced how much she was looking forward to the night.
Outcome
I made small planters, filled with soil, and topped with a cardboard leaf, found seeds that would grow from that time of year and took enough candles and lighters etc.
On the night I welcomed people by inviting them to light a candle and decorate the path to the venue with them in candle bags. At the designated time, I drew the crowd together, introduced the ceremony, explained what we were going to do. Everyone was given a seed to plant in their planter and asked to write a wish on the leaf for the Bday Girl. Those that wanted read out their wishes as the Bday Girl glowed and growed from the goodwill. The poem was read out – by her oldest friend there – and she responded to the crowd with a few beautiful, heartfelt words she’d prepared. And then there was cake.
She took the wishes and seeds home, to read again and watch as the seeds germinated over the following weeks.
Simple, authentic, inclusive and long-lasting.

I understand the ceremony has to be absolutely right for you and am happy to meet or talk over the phone for you get to a feel of my style before booking me. Please don’t hesitate to ask any questions without any obligation to continue.

Fees will vary depending on the nature of your event, beginning at ÂŁ50 for consultancy & devising only.
Email: sehymas at a gmail dot com

Launches

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Within my role as celebrant, I make launches with other people, for their projects and books.

Whether launching a book, building, art exhibition or other project, the moment of making it public signifies both the end and beginning of two momentous journeys. A launch is the hinge of the creation’s existence. It is the bridge between the private and public life of what has been made.

I have launched, if not a thousand, many many books – of fiction,
poetry and anthologies – print and electronic.

These events have taken place in art galleries, libraries, a maritime museum, a judges’ lodgings and village halls. Each subtly took on the personality of the book, and proved, rightly, to be celebratory
affairs, whether among a few friends and colleagues or public events open to whoever is curious.

I also launch buildings, homes and art exhibitions, ensuring that the
essence of the work is reflected in the nature of the occasion.

As with all my ceremony work I am keen to collaborate as much as possible to define, design and deliver exactly what fits to purpose.

Fees will vary depending on the nature of your event, beginning at ÂŁ50.
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Namings

dollYour child’s name will be the word they hear more regularly than any other. Its sound and rhythm will inform their identity.

The sound and rhythm of the naming ceremony will be present in the environment, rituals, words and music you choose for the occasion.

Welcoming this person into your life, and that of your family and community, can also include your hopes for them as well as for yourselves, your knowledge of them, other people’s understanding of you, and vows you may wish to make. Whatever you choose to focus on, we’ll create a loving event that truly reflects your feelings.

Fees start at ÂŁ150.
Email: sehymas [at] gmail [dot] com for more info

Commitment Ceremonies

secular wedding north west englandIf you’ve chosen to commit to your partner, and to make this public, then you may want a ceremony that reflects your union and aspirations for it. A secular wedding is limited only by your imagination. You can have it wherever you choose, with a visit to the registry office before or after ceremony itself.

My role is to help you create your own customized ceremony – the setting, readings, music, poems, vows and any rituals – for this rite that is both intimate and public. My aim is to make it as individual as you and your relationship.

If you are wanting a civil ceremony and would like to explore what is possible, then I’d be honoured to contribute to your event, and work with you with care and attention to every detail.

I am not a registrar and the ceremony I make won’t be legally binding, but could work in conjunction with a registrar. It is ideal if you have a particular building or outdoor space in mind that isn’t registered for marriages, or you want something a littel less formal, more creative, expansive and perhaps playful.

I understand this ceremony has to be absolutely right for you and am happy to meet or talk over the phone for you get to a feel of my style before booking me. Please don’t hesitate to ask questions without any obligation to continue.

fees begin at ÂŁ450
Email: sehymas at a gmail dot com

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I also offer Vow Renewals